A man with multiple sexual partners is labelled a player, a woman is called a slut. Fifty years after the sexual revolution it turns out not that much has changed. In the media, women are presented as willing sex bombs, but when a woman goes after what she wants, she puts her honor at stake. Sunny Bergman, who challenged the feminine beauty ideal in 2007 with the film “Beperkt houdbaar”, finds out where this slut fear comes from. In a disarming way she reveals hidden social codes and values that fuel the debate – all the way to the bedroom.